By Army Capt. Monika Comeaux
13th Sustainment Command
CAMP EGGERS, Afghanistan, Aug. 2, 2012 - Some families have a son, daughter,
mother or father deployed, but for some, a deployment is a complete family
affair
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Army Sgt. 1st Class Stephen Latch and Army Staff Sgt. Carmelita Ann
Latch at Camp Eggers, Afghanistan. They deployed from Fort Hood's 13th
Expeditionary Sustainment Command in December 2011 on their second
deployment together. U.S. Army photo by Capt. Monika Comeaux
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Sgt. 1st Class Stephen Latch, the mobility noncommissioned officer in charge,
and Army Staff Sgt. Carmelita A. Latch, an integrations noncommissioned
officer, both work here in support operations for NATO Training Mission
Afghanistan. They deployed from Fort Hood, Texas, with the 13th Expeditionary
Sustainment Command.
Being a married Army couple has both its advantages and disadvantages, but
the Latches focus on the positives to help them through their second deployment
together.
"There is always somebody there to talk to, which is really
helpful," Stephen said. "It is always nice to have that moral support
with you, no matter what. We are permanent battle buddies."
The couple is together practically 24/7, as they work together and are
housed together. They said if they weren't on the same camp, they would worry
about each other constantly.
"There are times when he gets on my nerves because he picks on
me," Carmelita said. "But as far as us getting mad at each other and
have to be away from each other, we have never been like that. ... We are one
of those couples who function better together than apart."
The couple left three kids back home, who they miss dearly: Loni, 20, Rudy,
19, and Lexi, 11. Loni and Rudy are house-sitting family homes in two different
states while Loni attends college full-time in Virginia. Rudy has a full-time
job in Texas, and Lexi is staying with her grandparents. Being the youngest,
Stephen said, it is hard for her to deal with her dad being away, but she copes
well.
" [Lexi] is a trooper," he said. "This is the fourth
deployment that I have been on since she has been alive. She is getting kind of
in the zone now where she understands. ... When she does get to missing me a
lot, normally I either try send her a necklace or something she can look at --
give her something that she can hold and touch -- and that helps her a
lot."
The two older kids shared their views via email about not having either
parent around.
"I love them and miss them more than anyone could know, and I can't
wait to see them again," wrote Rudy-Allan Kaech Jr., Carmelita's son.
"It gives me a sense of independence living on my own, with the sense of
security that they will still be there for me... if I need them."
"Both of my parents being deployed is very hard," wrote Loni Marie
Kaech, Carmelita's daughter. "When I need to talk or need anything, they
are not here." She started her message with how having to talk about her
parents being gone actually brings her to tears. She also misses the double
dates she used to go on with her husband and parents, she said.
The Latch family set goals to make the deployment go by faster. They've paid
off most of their bills and are saving up for their mid-tour leave. They have
also been working on college courses.
"It has been a long deployment," Carmelita said. "We both
started college out here. He has done 20 college credits since we have been out
here. I will have finished 25 college credits, and I have also raised my
General Technical score out here, so I am excited about that. We have accomplished
a lot here, and it has been amazing," she said.
"I had no college at all, it is a really big step for me," Stephen
said.
Loni is also working toward a degree using Stephen's Post 9/11 GI Bill. Her
mom set an incentive to inspire her: "I promised my daughter I'd take her
anywhere in the world when she graduated college," Carmelita said with a
broad smile. "Now she wants to go to Greece, so I am trying to save up for
that."
"A little bit of suffering on our part to get her ahead of life -- I
think it is all worth it," Stephen added.
The couple will leave Afghanistan shortly and plans to enjoy the Texas
hunting season. They will keep their eyes on their goals not only for the
duration of the deployment, but also for their future.
"My goal is to retire as a sergeant major [and to be] the first female
sergeant major of the Army," Carmelita said. But their biggest goal, they
said, is always to safely return to their children.
They emphasized professionalism, trust, patience
and communication as the keys to a successful deployment for a married couple.