By Air Force Airman 1st Class Katie Schultz, 149th Fighter
Wing
JOINT BASE SAN ANTONIO-LACKLAND, Texas -- After watching her
school’s ROTC drill team perform during her freshman year of high school, Rosa
Vittori decided she would join the Air Force.
Her dream was cut short, however, when she became pregnant
at age 15.
“It was hard being pregnant in high school, and I just
wanted to get out of there,” said Vittori, now an airman first class and a
personnel specialist with the Texas Air National Guard’s 149th Fighter Wing
here. “I dropped out of ROTC, took senior classes, and finished in three years.
After graduating, I felt like I couldn’t go join the Air Force because I had a
young kid.”
Many years and two more children later, Vittori was set in a
routine of working days as an office manager, going to night school and raising
her daughters when a thought occurred to her.
“There came a point where I asked myself, ‘What are you
doing with your life? What do you have to show for yourself?’” she said. “My
sister-in-law told me about the Guard and said it might be a good option for me
so I wouldn’t have to move my kids all around, but I could still serve.”
Testing
After hearing that advice, Vittori contacted a recruiter at
the 149th Fighter Wing then took the Armed Services Vocational Aptitude
Battery, an aptitude test used to determine enlistment qualification for
military service. Since it had been so many years since Vittori had seen the
material being tested, she did not pass.
“After I failed, I thought maybe it wasn’t meant to be,” she
said. “It didn’t happen after high school, and it’s not happening now. I kind
of got down about that, but I thought ‘Let’s just go ahead and do it again.’”
While balancing work and motherhood, she took the ASVAB
again and passed, enlisting into the wing in 2016. She then completed her training
as a personnel specialist and earned a technician position at the wing shortly
thereafter.
“Serving in the Guard has given me so many more
opportunities than I thought possible,” Vittori said. “I also feel like I’m
setting a good example for my kids. My youngest and my middle one talk about
joining the Air Force now, and honestly that’s the main goal -- to be a good
role model for them. I want my kids to remember me for going after my dreams
even though I had a hard start. That’s what I want to show them.”
Trying to be that positive role model is not always easy,
she said.
“When I was at tech school, I missed two of my daughters’
birthdays,” Vittori said. “I also missed my oldest daughter’s cheerleading
competitions, which was hard because we have a routine where I do her make-up
and get her ready. But with me gone, she had to have other moms help her, so it
was tough to know that she was alone on important days.”
‘It Gets Better’
According to Airman 1st Class Rubie Rodriguez, a close
friend of Vittori and an aviation resource management specialist with the wing,
challenges don’t keep her friend from her goals.
“She’s open-minded and has a positive outlook, even when
she’s faced with obstacles,” Rodriguez said. “We always say, ‘It gets better.’
And whenever anyone else is going through a hard time, she will drop everything
at a moment’s notice to be there whether you just need to vent or need an open
ear. She’s an amazing friend and I’m happy to have her.”
Rodriguez said she periodically checks in on Vittori.
“Sometimes I call her in the morning as she’s going into
work, either getting coffee or walking out the door, to see how she’s doing,”
she said. “We keep each other accountable, and she can always count on her
second family at the Guard.”
And even though it took her longer to start her military
career, Vittori said she is glad she persevered and didn’t let fear of failure
hold her back. She encourages others to do the same.
“I feel like a lot of people get caught up in the what-ifs
and what could go wrong and they never think of what could go right,” she said.
“You just have to do it. If you want to do something, you have to do it without
thinking. Don’t think about the things you’re going to miss, because sacrifices
have to be made in order to reach your dreams. But once you reach that dream,
it brings out another side you never knew was there, and it’s worth it.”