By Amber Baillie
Academy Spirit Staff Writer
U.S. AIR FORCE ACADEMY, Colorado Springs, Colo., Aug. 9, 2013 –
Each day Air Force Lt. Col. Dan Oosterhous is reminded to keep fighting
when he glances at the bright green wristband he sports on his right arm
that reads: "Tough times don't last, tough people do."
Air
Force Lt. Col. Dan Oosterhous, an active-duty tennis coach at the U.S.
Air Force Academy in Colorado Springs, Colo., recovers in Memorial
Hospital’s Intensive Care Unit March 24, 2013, with his children, Emma,
left, and Andrew and Anna, right, following his second stroke. U.S. Air
Force courtesy photo (Click photo for screen-resolution image);high-resolution image available. |
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Oosterhous, the men's tennis coach here and the only active-duty
head coach at the academy, wears the gift from his father everywhere he
goes to keep a positive attitude amidst the constant discomfort and
uncertainty he continues to experience after experiencing two strokes
this past spring.
"It's not something you wake up from and are
better," Oosterhous said. "It doesn't go away. I have to believe I'm
going to get better or else I won't. Instead of worrying about why this
happened, I have to push forward."
A 1993 academy graduate and
coach here for the past four years, Oosterhous, 42, was active and
healthy until the evening of Feb. 28. Feeling like a 20-year-old again
after competing in a match against his Falcon tennis players, Oosterhous
said he went to bed that night and woke up feeling dizzy, began
vomiting, and felt an intense pain in his neck.
"It took me three
tries just to get to the bathroom because I kept falling down,"
Oosterhous said. "I tried to sleep it off but that wasn't the right
thing to do. I needed medical attention right then."
As his
symptoms lingered, Oosterhous said his wife drove him to the emergency
room where medics informed that he was having a stroke.
"I knew
something was definitely wrong, but I had no idea it was a stroke,"
Oosterhous said. "That wasn't the first thing that came to mind. I'm
young, healthy and I just didn't think stroke."
Tests revealed
the stroke was triggered by a dissection of an artery. Oosterhous was
put on a blood thinner, and for the next two weeks he doubled up on
physical and occupational therapy to regain strength through the right
side of his body. Little did he know he would relive the horrific ordeal
a week later on March 21.
"I woke up with the same headache and
same pain except it was on the left side this time," Oosterhous said. "I
couldn't believe it was happening all over again."
Oosterhous
went to the hospital, where his symptoms progressed during the next 20
hours. He was unable to move his fingers or feel the left side of his
body.
"Every minute something was fading away and it was
frustrating because I knew from my previous experience how long it was
going to take to get things back," Oosterhous said.
"Medics gave
me a clot-busting drug but there was nothing they could do to stop the
stroke,” he said. “'It just had to evolve,' was how they put it."
Oosterhous had difficulty breathing, speaking and swallowing throughout the night.
"The upper part of the brain was working fine," Oosterhous said. "The
signals that tell my muscles to move couldn't get through my brain stem
because a tiny channel was blocking them. Since I'm unable to get the
signal to my muscles, my brain has to learn through repetition and
effort."
Oosterhous remained in the hospital for four weeks and
was unable to drive for two months. Family members, co-workers and
players from his team showed their support by visiting him and reading
his online blog.
"Journaling has been therapeutic," Oosterhous
said. "My journals have grown into longer, more thoughtful, deeper
experiences of learning. I've learned how I operate, how I ‘tick,’ how I
go about my daily life and what is important to me. I've been able to
spend more time with my three kids this summer than the past four
summers I've been here."
Throughout the recovery process,
Oosterhous said he's consistently set goals to stay motivated. Two goals
he accomplished included coaching his team here during the Mountain
West Conference in April and commissioning two seniors from the team
during graduation in May.
"In February I had promised them I
would do their commissioning," Oosterhous said. "After my stroke I
wasn't sure if that was still possible. I decided to keep that as one of
my goals to be able to get out of the hospital, be able to walk onto
the stage and do the oath of office with them. It was a lot harder than I
thought it would be but I was so glad I could do it. I was in my
uniform for the first time again and it was the neatest thing I've done
in my 20-year Air Force career."
Oosterhous said he's been able to apply lessons he learned here as a cadet to surviving two strokes.
"I've learned why we do certain things at the academy, such as play
sports," Oosterhous said. "It's because they teach bigger life lessons.
When you get sick and your life is completely changed -- How do you deal
with that? Being able to have the positive attitude and work ethic to
get through this has been nice because I know that if I can handle this,
I can handle anything."
Oosterhous is on narcotics and a strong
blood thinner to alleviate the pain and prevent him from stroking again
-- although another one could occur at any point.
"Doctors don't
want to operate because it would be very risky," Oosterhous said. "Pilot
training was the hardest year of my life, my four years at the academy
were very difficult, but this is something that is going to be with me
for my entire life."
He told his players that they can choose their attitudes throughout life.
"You can't choose what happens to you," Oosterhous said. "Hard work
doesn't guarantee that you'll win a match or that you're going to be the
best on the team but if you have a good attitude, good things will
happen."
Oosterhous is walking short distances without a cane. He is swimming. He even took on wheelchair tennis during a clinic in May.
"I still have a long way to go in my recovery and it will take years to
get back anywhere close to my pre-stroke levels but I only know how to
keep fighting," he said.
Oosterhous participated in adaptive
sports camps this week through the Air Force Wounded Warrior program
where he was able to interact with other active-duty members who also
became ill or were wounded in combat.
"The goal is for
participants to realize they can be active again," Oosterhous said. "The
subset of that goal is to pick people for the Warrior Games."
Oosterhous plans to begin coaching the men's tennis team again later this month.
"The cadets motivate me and I think this is the best place in the world
to work," Oosterhous said. "I'm around athletics which is a huge part
of recovery. The four-year process of bringing kids out of high school
and graduating them as officers is really neat to me. My tennis coach
here was my biggest role model and that's what I hope I can do for these
cadets."
Oosterhous said he will be ready for his players.
"I want to work and this is the work I love," he said.