by retired U.S. Army LTC John W. Phillips
“Either you deal with what is the reality, or you can be
sure that the reality is going to deal with you.” —Alex Haley
If you are a transitioning military member, there are three
significant hurdles you will face while transitioning from the military into
the private sector. While there may be others, successfully facing these will
help with all the rest. As I reflect back over my 15 years in corporate
America, these three areas rise to the top and must be addressed and understood
so that your entry into the private sector has a positive and successful
outcome.
The Trust Factor.
Trust is the foundation for all things where people are concerned. I
can’t think of anything you will encounter in life that does not have some link
to another human being. The ability to trust leaders, co-workers, direct
reports, etc. is paramount to achieving goals. Without the trust factor at
play, you’ll spend a great deal of time looking over your shoulder instead of
doing the actual job you were hired to do. I see this key tenet as one of the
most critical aspects in any organization. I may be critical here, however, if
you are a veteran or a transitioning military member, do not make the mistake
of assuming everyone has your best interest at heart in the corporate world.
Watch your “6” at all times. Learn key methods to gain and build trust within
your organization or workplace. There’s a great deal of information on how to
do that – just Google; How to Gain Trust In The Workplace.
Cultural Differences.
Diversity is a fact of life. That said it’s no surprise at how our world
has changed in the last 10-15 years. As a member of any branch of military
service, the very nature of our job is to interact, influence and perhaps to
interpret the actions of individuals and groups whose cultural context may
differ from our own. In order to carry out a mission or operation, members of
the military must have the ability to adapt in various cross-cultural
environments. Additionally, it is imperative that men and women serving in the
military embrace opportunities to train and develop skill-sets to gain greater
cultural awareness in areas such as; ethnicity, gender, religion, etc.
Cross-cultural competence is a valuable asset to bring from the military to a
private sector environment.
Communication Gaps. Coming from a world where “you speak
when spoken to” will no longer be your new norm outside the gate. While in uniform, a best practice for me was
simply keeping my mouth shut (which was hard to do) and blending in with all
the other skinhead recruits in fatigues. The communication style in the
military is very direct and to the point. There was never a doubt in my mind
what someone wanted while in uniform—enlisted or as an officer. Transparency was the norm. Worrying about
hurting someone’s feelings was just the opposite…not normal.
With that said one of the most significant challenges for
anyone exiting the military is effective communication—verbal and nonverbal. In
the private sector, you may run across someone who is “thin-skinned.”
Generally, this refers to someone who is sensitive and a direct, open and
honest approach may seem a bit hard. How these types of individuals interpret
your communication style can have negative results for you. Just as
cross-cultural competence is important, effective communications is paramount
to building positive and strong relationships. Learn how people like to receive
information by listening and watching how they communicate with others. Or, if
you learn that someone is sensitive, invite them to lunch and ask them how best
to communicate with them so that the end result is always a positive one.
Tackle these three hurdles early on in your transition
process and you’ll be amazed at how much easier it will be to face any other
challenges.
To my brothers and sisters who have served or are now
serving in the United States Armed Services—you know more than you think you
do. These are just a few tips from someone who made a successful and positive
transition!
John W. Phillips, LTC (Ret.) has had a distinguished career
in both military and civilian service. He is a retired U.S. Army Field
Artillery officer and Comptroller with 20+ years of service in Corps Artillery,
Division Artillery, Army Headquarters and Forces Command. After retiring from
the military in 1999, LTC Phillips immediately started a new career with The
Coca-Cola Company and, currently, is a mid-level finance executive. In addition
to his position, he is also the founder and chairman of The Coca-Cola Company
annual Veterans Day program and Co-founder and President of The Coca-Cola
Company Military Veterans Business Resource Group. LTC Phillips is the author
of Boots to Loafers: Finding Your New True North. For more information, please
visit www.bootstoloafers.com.
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