By Shannon Collins, DoD News, Defense Media Activity /
Published October 26, 2015
ARLINGTON, Va. (AFNS) -- As a disabled Air Force veteran
living with post-traumatic stress from military sexual trauma, I’ve had my good
days and bad days but all of my hard work over the past two years paid off Oct.
25 when I achieved one of my goals -- completing my first full marathon, the
Marine Corps Marathon.
I had a difficult childhood. My father committed suicide
when I was 5 years old, and my mother struggled to raise three children on her
own. Right before I joined the Air Force, I was sexually assaulted. I joined
the Air Force to serve my country, because my father had served in the Air
Force and because I’ve had family in all of the services throughout the years.
We’ve served since the Revolutionary War.
Five years ago, I was sexually assaulted for the second time
while I was serving overseas. I became very depressed and gained about 50
pounds. I had been enlisted and then an officer in public affairs. My friends
and co-workers noticed that I became withdrawn and less social but I wouldn’t
tell them what happened. It affected my work performance, and I finally went to
mental health about a year later for depression and anxiety. I was seeking help
when I was hit with the drawdown after 14 years in the service. My career was
everything to me, so this hit me hard. I hit bottom and almost checked myself
into an inpatient hospital for mental health for my depression because of
suicidal thoughts. I finally admitted what happened to me and went to the Air
Force Office of Special Investigations to report the assault.
I went home for six months and went back to school but I
missed what I know and love, public affairs, writing about service members and
how important they are to the military. I found a government job at Defense
Media Activity.
Addiction runs in my family, so I didn’t want to turn to
alcohol or drugs to deal with my post-traumatic stress disorder. My father had
turned to both before he died. Instead, I found a new passion -- running.
While I had been on activity duty, the doctors had told me I
couldn’t run anymore because I have osteoarthritis in both knees, and I have to
get injections of fake cartilage every six months. I had run track in junior
high school, mainly sprinting, and had only run in the military for my physical
training tests. But when I started running, I found peace, joy and started
finding my confidence again.
I ran my first half marathon last November at Disneyland,
called the Avengers Super Heroes, and was hooked. You get to run through the
parks before they open, and there is so much crowd support, people cheering you
on. After the Avengers race, I found some Disney running groups on Facebook and
have met up with them at other Disney races.
I’ve also been more active with Wounded Warrior Project, and
during my long run training, I imagine some of my WWP alumni and some of the
people I’ve served with who are no longer with us running alongside me,
motivating me when I’m hitting that wall.
Since I began running in earnest three years ago, when I
left the Air Force, I’ve lost 40 pounds and have gone from a 16-minute mile to
a 10:30-mile pace. The running community is very supportive and always there if
you need them or you can run it solo, whatever you’re more comfortable with.
The night before the marathon, I had trouble sleeping, and I
had a few nightmares about my attack. When I woke up, I threw on my WWP shirt,
my “PTSD, not all wounds are visible” hat, running shoes and pants, and running
belt with my bib attached and took the metro in to the Pentagon for the start
line. I was nervous and excited. The crowds are the hardest part for me, but I
just told myself, “Just breathe.” I just remind myself why I’m there and just
try to focus on something else and try to calm down.
The security was crazy, but I got to my corral just in time.
I started out a little fast but kept up about an 11-minute pace until mile 16
or so. My main goal was to “Beat the Bridge” but I really wanted to finish
below five hours. At mile 12, I was overcome with emotion because it’s the mile
of remembrance. You see rows of photos of the fallen. I saw one runner getting
very emotional over someone who meant a great deal to him. It took a moment for
me to get myself back together but I put myself back together and pushed on.
After that mile, I put my headphones back on and focused. At mile 20, the
bridge was a challenge, and at mile 21, the sprain I had in my right ankle a
few weeks ago came back with a vengeance.
The sprain had flared up my tendinitis, and my right ankle
was hurting a little before I had even started hurting so I knew it would be an
issue but I was able to ignore it most of the run but by mile 21, it hurt so
bad I couldn’t run on it anymore so I had to walk most of the rest of the way
from mile 21 to 26.
Throughout the course, I saw signs like “determined,”
“remember your training” and “freedom isn’t free, thank you for your service.”
Many people had photos honoring service men and women who had fallen. It was
very inspirational. I used this energy to push me forward most of my run. I
finished the Marine Corps Marathon in 5:10:07 and earned my medal from the
Marine graduate at the Iwo Jima Memorial.
This journey from hitting bottom, crying all the time,
gaining weight, losing myself because of what happened with how I handled the
assault and losing my job to now, having a good job, earning medals for running
half marathons and now a marathon has been interesting. I encourage anyone to
venture out there and follow your dreams. Go out and run or walk a 5K, then a
10K. The running community is very supportive. You never know where your feet
will take you.
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