Research indicates that the divorce rate among military
families is higher than the average divorce rate in America. One reason for
this high rate might rely on the fact that military families move on a regular
basis. When you or your spouse receives new orders, you need to prepare both
yourself and your family for a new town and a new home. Creating a schedule
that shows you what you need to do during each step in your move can cut down
on your stress and help you get through the process easier.
Decide What Needs Done
The day that you receive those new orders is the perfect
time to start planning for your move. Before you write down a single thing,
decide what you need to do. Do you need to contact the utility companies and
turn off the water, power and television at your old address? Do you need to go
through a storage locker filled with things from your last move? Do you need to
contact your children's school and make arrangements to send their records to a
new school? There are many things you'll need to do to prepare for your move.
Make a Schedule
Once you have an idea about what you need to do, you can
create your schedule. Depending on your rank and other factors, you may have
six months or longer before you move or as little as two or three months. Write
down each thing you need to do and when you need to do it. Some things,
including cleaning out your refrigerator and taking a final walk through, can
wait until the last few hours. Other things on your list, including dropping
off donations to a charity or packing out of season clothes, are things you can
do early on.
Follow Your List
After creating your schedule, follow the list in order. Take
care of a few things every week until you can cross off those last few steps.
This helps you keep track of what you still need to do and lets you see the
progress you made. Check your list every few days or at least once a week to
add any new things you need to do before moving. Click here to see some other
tips from military families about what they did and how they prepared for
previous moves.
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