By Candice Villarreal, NAVSUP Fleet
Logistics Center San Diego Public Affairs
SAN DIEGO (NNS) -- It was a normal day
in the Philippines; hot, muggy, and fairly uneventful. But as a young Virgilio
"James" Dariano ruffled through the pages of his textbooks one summer
afternoon in 1984, he had no idea what his mother was up to back home.
Her actions that day changed his life
dramatically.
Dariano's mother knew the
U.S.-Philippine Military Bases Agreement allowed Filipinos to enlist in the
U.S. Navy as foreign nationals through what was called the Philippine
Enlistment Program. She also knew her son was coming of age, growing into an
adult in a land where it was often hard to make ends meet and keep food on the
table. She knew she wanted better for him.
That day, she came up with an idea: she mailed
his black-and-white high school portrait to a local recruiter and hoped for the
best.
Weeks, months and even years went by,
and his mother silently gave up and eventually forgot. Dariano had done well
for himself, graduating from high school, earning a college degree in
communications engineering and landing his first job as an electronics
technician.
And then the postcard came.
Like a winning lottery ticket delivered
to his mailbox, a recruiter had sent an invitation for Dariano to take the
entrance exam. After deep thought and careful consideration, Dariano said he
reflected on the "Join the Navy, see the world" posters he'd seen
around town and decided to take the plunge on the same day he was scheduled to
negotiate salary with a big power company he'd been hired on with.
In November of 1989 - five years after
his mother sent his photograph in for consideration without his knowledge - he
enlisted into the U.S. Navy from Subic Bay, Philippines, and his naval career
began.
"Out of 150 candidates, here I was
with the worst English in the group, and I was one of only three
selected," Dariano said. "The only promise we got from the recruiter
was that we'd get three meals a day and a place to sleep."
Dariano shipped off to boot camp in San
Diego, so amazed by the plentiful food at dinnertime that he stuffed apples
into his pockets.
"I couldn't believe it," he
said. "There was just so much food."
Still, with only $1.50 in his pocket,
Dariano said he wondered how he was going to make it all alone, in a land so
foreign and intimidating, and with his home and family so far away.
He did what he could to keep his spirits
up, and after graduating boot camp, he headed out to boatswain's mate
apprenticeship school.
"Things were on track; I was in
school and everything was good," he said. "And then one day they
showed us a video about snap-back, and all I could think was 'I don't want that
happening to me!'"
After graduating at the top of his
class, Dariano was offered another chance at rate classification and was given
the choice to be meritoriously promoted to E-2 or be awarded an "A"
School. With the video still fresh in his mind, he chose the latter.
With all of the engineering billets
full, Dariano ended up choosing the Ship's Serviceman rating and headed to
school in Mississippi, where he graduated with top honors and was meritoriously
promoted to E-4.
Despite his promotions, Dariano
struggled daily with the language barrier he was up against, as well as with
differences in culture.
"I was always getting yelled at,
but it was fine because I didn't understand it all, anyway," he said.
"I just kept doing what I was supposed to do and worked hard, and I
started listening to talk radio to help improve my language skills. The late
Paul Harvey has no idea how much he's helped me."
Dariano married his girlfriend Edith in
the Philippines and soon had his first son. Life was good, but the struggles
continued. His wife was in the U.S. on a tourist visa that prohibited
employment, and the bills were adding up.
"It was our first Christmas and we
had this tiny little tree with wrapped empty boxes underneath," he said.
"It was hard, but I looked at my baby boy and said 'Son, don't worry,
because things are going to get better,' and they did. Starting a family in the
states with zero foundation was incredibly hard, but not impossible."
Years and duty assignments flew by. By
2002, Dariano was promoted to chief petty officer, and in 2005, he submitted a
package for the chief warrant officer (CWO) program. That spring, he attended a
conference in San Diego and had a chance to meet the guest speaker, retired
Capt. Jerry Linenger.
"I was just in awe of this guy - he
was an astronaut and gave a great speech about how he almost died during a
space mission," Dariano said. "After the conference, he shook my hand
and thanked me for all I'd done to get him to where he was. Not me personally,
but all the chiefs I represent, and that really touched me. I went back home
and immediately asked for my CWO package to be returned to me, because right
then and there, I decided I was going to retire as a chief."
Dariano said his family, work ethic and
mentors kept him motivated and that life has greatly improved. He continued
receiving promotions and recently used the Navy's tuition assistance program to
earn a master's degree in organizational management. His wife was promoted to
assistant manager at a local credit union, and they have two healthy, growing
sons.
"My sons see how much time we spent
studying, trying to better ourselves, and that it has paid off," said
Dariano. "They have values like hard work and education engrained in them
now. I told them that we may not have all the money in the world to give them,
but that the Navy is going to help us give them an education. That is
enough."
He reached the top of the Navy's
enlisted ladder in the spring, after 23 years of service.
"Without my mentors, I would not be
where I am," he said. "They gave me the freedom to operate within my
capacity while always standing nearby to pick me up when I fell down. They
taught me how to be a leader."
Master Chief Ship's Serviceman (SW/AW)
Virgilio Dariano currently serves as the fleet assistance team leader for
NAVSUP Fleet Logistics Center San Diego, where he also served as the command's
interim senior enlisted leader. He is slated to report to USS Ronald Reagan
(CVN 76) in December.
"Looking back on my life, I am very
proud to have made the decisions I've made," he said. "I've had
obstacles, but I've seen success, too. To this day, every time my wife and I
see how much we've attained, we just can't believe our eyes. It's a lot easier
to quantify how much you've achieved when you really started with nothing. We
were struggling, but the Navy took care of us, and I will always be grateful
for that."
NAVSUP Fleet Logistics Center San Diego,
one of seven fleet logistics centers under NAVSUP Global Logistics Support,
provides global logistics, business and support services to fleet, shore and
industrial commands of the Navy, Coast Guard, Military Sealift Command, and
other joint and allied Forces. Services include contracting, regional
transportation, fuel, material management, household goods movement support,
postal and consolidated mail, warehousing, global logistics and husbanding,
hazardous material management, and integrated logistics support.
NAVSUP GLS comprises more than 5,700
military and civilian logistics professionals, contractors and foreign
nationals operating as a single cohesive team providing global logistics
services from 110 locations worldwide.
A component of the Naval Supply Systems
Command headquartered in Mechanicsburg, Pa., NAVSUP GLS is part of a worldwide
logistics network of more than 22,500 military and civilian personnel providing
combat capability through logistics.
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