By Air Force Staff Sgt. Julio Olivencia New York National
Guard
NEWBURGH, N.Y., January 25, 2016 — Air Force Master Sgt.
Henry Windels donated one of his kidneys to Air Force Staff Sgt. Daniel Cola in
October, saving Cola from a difficult and limited life with continual
kidney-dialysis treatments.
Windels has returned to duty at Stewart Air National Guard
Base here, Cola is continuing a remarkable recovery, and the two men -- both
members of the 105th Airlift Wing and once just acquaintances -- said they are
much closer.
Moreover, Cola and his wife Aly said they are eternally
grateful to Windels. They’ve gained a new perspective on life, they said, and a
determination to focus on helping others.
“My husband was given a second chance at life -- we aren’t
going to do things the same,” Aly said. “We’re not going to take things for
granted, like holidays and lazy Sundays.”
Illness Strikes
In the fall of 2014, everything was coming together for
Cola, a flight equipment specialist: He was 28 years old, in his third year as
a New York police officer, his 10th year with the New York Air National Guard,
and he’d just married Aly, his childhood sweetheart.
Cola said he and his new bride were on the fourth day of
their honeymoon in the Turks and Caicos Islands when he began to feel ill.
“He was really only feeling sick at night. During the day he
seemed to be OK,” Aly said.
The couple said they thought he just had a minor sickness
that can be common when traveling abroad, but on the final night his condition
got much worse. “That’s when it hit me full-blown. I was puking, dehydrated and
couldn’t keep anything down,” Cola said.
There was a small hospital on the island, Cola said, but he
wanted to get back home to New York, where he trusted the medical care more.
Besides, he said he thought he just had a bug and needed to be hydrated, which
happened to him on a previous trip to the Dominican Republic.
Worsening Condition
He said his symptoms continued to get worse, making the trip
home a difficult one. He began vomiting nearly every 15 minutes and looked like
a zombie, Aly said. Coincidentally, the Ebola scare of 2014 was at its height
during that time.
“The flight was terrible,” Aly said, adding that Cola was
making trips to the airplane lavatory every 15 minutes. “Everybody was staring
at us, everybody was scared -- everybody thought he had Ebola.”
Though Aly tried to convince her new husband to go to the
hospital during the layover in Miami, he decided to press on to New York. Cola
said he knew he didn’t have Ebola and he was still convinced he had some minor
illness that would be dissipate once he was hydrated.
“We landed in New York and went straight to the hospital,”
Cola said. He was admitted and hooked up to an IV. After a few hours of tests
and monitoring, he said the doctor returned with an entourage of other medical
professionals, and they began grilling the couple with questions.
Aly said a team of about 20 specialists came in and said
"you need to tell us everything about your trip -- where you were, what
animals you were around, what you ate, every activity you did."
First Diagnosis
Then they were told Cola was in kidney failure. He was
treated for the mosquito-borne disease dengue fever, also known as breakbone
fever. The symptoms of the disease are fever, headache, muscle and joint pains.
If left untreated, it can progress into a life-threatening hemorrhagic fever.
“It literally feels like your bones are breaking,” Cola
said. “They describe it as bone crushing pain.”
While Cola had an IV to keep him hydrated and medication to
manage the pain, he said there was nothing to do but wait to let the disease
work through his system. The hope was once the dengue fever was gone, he would
regain kidney function.
“I think that’s where my head was most of the time -- I was
just hoping I regained kidney function,” Cola said.
Between the fever and the pain medication, Cola said he was
in a fog and not fully aware of what was going on. Aly, however, said she was
very aware and becoming increasingly worried.
“I was just in disbelief,” she said. “I just couldn’t
believe it was happening. I couldn’t believe how it happened. He only had like
one bite on him. I was covered from head to toe in mosquito bites, so you
figure if anyone should have gotten sick it should have been me.”
Doctors told the couple that they didn’t think he would
regain kidney function after about a week of monitoring and blood tests four
times a day.
Bad to Worse
Cola said he was diagnosed with stage 5 chronic kidney
disease, which meant his kidney function was less than 20 percent. He learned
he would eventually need a new kidney or have to go on dialysis for the rest of
his life.
Cola and his wife believe his CKD was caused by dengue
fever, which is made worse when a patient has had a different strain of the
disease before. Cola believes he got the disease while in the Dominican
Republic the year prior.
“For someone to go from good kidney function to end-stage
kidney function at this age is not common,” Cola said.
Aly got tested right away only to find that she wasn’t a
match, but as luck would have it, she was a match for an individual who was
part of a complex kidney exchange.
A complex kidney exchange involves multiple donors and
patients. This way Aly could donate a kidney to someone else and Cola could
still benefit by receiving a kidney from another donor in the exchange. There
were eight individuals involved in the exchange, creating a sort donation
chain.
Hopes Dashed
“It was crazy. We had what we thought was perfect timing,”
Aly said.
A few days before the surgery, in May of 2015, Cola was
informed that there was a chance that his donor had tuberculosis. The exchange
was called off after much debate among his doctors.
His hopes were raised once again when a kidney became
available on his birthday in June, but that fell through as well.
“It was a waiting game,” Aly said. “We couldn’t do anything
and the longer it went on the less hope we had.”
And so they waited.
Hopes Restored
Air Force Master Sgt. Henry Windels, a loadmaster, heard
about Cola’s condition in June.
The two airmen had attended water survival and parachute
training together four years before, but both described their relationship at
the time as acquaintances.
“I’d seen him around here, but I didn’t know him,” Windels
said.
Windels heard that Cola was sick, but didn’t know to what
extent until someone else mentioned Cola needed a kidney. Approximately 12
years earlier, Windels said he'd read a story about someone who donated a
kidney to a complete stranger.
“It seemed like a noble thing to do, and I was interested,
but it never really went anywhere,” Windels said. He said he called Cola
shortly after he found out about the situation.
Cola thought Windels was reaching out to show support, but
when the two spoke, Windels asked how he could get tested to see if he was a
match.
“I told him to think about it, and see how it would affect
[his military status], but at that point, I knew he had his mind made up,” Cola
said. “I got the feeling he already did his soul-searching beforehand.”
Tests and More Tests
The doctors said that Windels would most likely be a match
since he was a universal blood donor, and they began the long testing and
preparation process shortly after they spoke.
Windels was put through numerous tests over the next three
months.
He had dozens of vials of blood drawn, heart and brain
scans, stress tests and meetings with a kidney specialist. He even had to meet
with a psychiatrist and social worker to make sure he understood what he was
doing, and that he was doing it for the right reasons.
Cola said he remained patient through the process, because
he knew that his hopes could be dashed at any time, as they were before.
Windels, on the other hand, said he wanted to get under the
knife as soon as possible to help his wingman. There were a number of times
that he fought with the hospital to move appointments up, because he didn’t
want Cola to have to remain sick for longer than he had to.
“I was very relaxed compared to Henry,” Cola said. “He
wanted it done right away. Throughout the whole process he kept apologizing,
saying ‘I’m sorry this is taking so long.’”
Windels was cleared to donate in late September, and the
surgery was set for Oct. 6. Cola called his kidney specialist the Saturday
before to cancel his scheduled appointment on Oct. 5 and tell her the good
news.
She told him it was just in time, because his kidney
function was below 10 percent and she had planned to discuss him going on
dialysis.
Cola said dialysis will prolong a patient’s life, but it
makes receiving a kidney later more difficult and there are a number of quality
of life issues associated with the treatment. “It’s a big strain on the body,”
Cola said.
Successful Surgery
The surgery took longer than expected, but there were no
complications and Cola’s new kidney immediately began to pick up the slack.
“The day after surgery, I’ve never seen him look so good or
feel so good,” Aly said. “He was a different person.”
Cola said he is feeling much better since the surgery. He
has begun to gain back the 30 pounds he lost, and his kidney function is back
to normal. He said he still has some recovery and monitoring to undergo before
he is cleared for work.
Windels said he recovered quickly and was back flying aboard
a C-17 Globemaster III cargo plane by mid-November. He said he was given no
restrictions, but will follow up regularly with a doctor to be sure everything
is going as expected.
“My doctor told me just to live my life. He didn’t say ‘lay
off salt,’ or ‘do this that and the other thing,’” Windels said.
The two airmen have become much closer since the surgery and
now hang out together on a regular basis. They even joke that Cola, a New York
Giants fan, is part New York Jets fan now that he has Windels’ kidney.
Meanwhile, Cola and his wife said they are planning a
fundraiser for Donate Life America, an organization dedicated to educating
people on the benefits of donating and connecting them with different
resources, and they have been volunteering through Volunteer New York to, among
others, send care packages to troops overseas.
“I constantly think, ‘What do you say to the person who
literally saved your life?’” Cola said.
“I think we can only thank him and show our thanks by paying
it forward,” Aly said.
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